please note that these comments, opinions and experiences are my own, your mileage may vary
Things not to say to an adopted person
1. Please don’t tell them to be grateful
All children should be grateful to their parents, not just adopted ones. They supported you financially and emotionally (hopefully) and you owe them a debt of gratitude, even God made it one of the big 10 (top 5 even so it must be important!). Why then would an adoptee (what adopted people call themselves) be singled out and told this? Well the truth is it’s ignorance but the underlying message re-affirms the belief that adopted people are somehow flawed or broken, or at the least, less than. I should be grateful because my biological parents abandoned me and as something unwanted and unloved I should be grateful someone took me in and gave me a home? Like I am some neighborhood stray?
The most interesting / uninteresting thing about me is that I’m adopted.
This is one of the first pictures taken of me. Cameras and film were expensive circa 1969, although I’ve seen dozens upon dozens of pictures, rounding them up and transferring them to digital is a slow process. Anyway, that’s me.
This is without a doubt one of my favorite B-52’s songs and a sure thing to get you on your feet and dancing.
Have a great weekend all!
Every few days this last month my life has ground to a halt while I sat riveted to the television watching the Women’s World Cup. Sometimes as it was played, other times hours or a day after it took place (thank god for DVR). I can’t recall any sporting event or match I was THIS enthralled with. Maybe it’s the 6 years I played competitive soccer or maybe it’s just never left me, it was just waiting for my goalkeeper’s heart to remember why I loved it so.
I’m waiting for the Japan vs England match to start. Cheering on the Lionesses in this one! Sunday I get to see my darling USA team battle for the win and I can’t wait! I hope this increase in interest for women’s football grows. I’d love to hear more little girls say they want to be professional footballers or athletes!